Yes, the Ring Light may be controlled via the Stream Deck. You can create lighting presets to quickly switch up the lighting with the single press of a button.
#5 Is the ball mount strong enough to hold heavy dslr camera + lens?
Yes, as long you tighten the joint it should be able to hold DSLRs + lens.
#6 Can you mount the light to a different stand or a tripod?
Yes it’s threaded to fit a standard tripod. Matter of fact the extendable stand that came with the light does not extend and another tripod is my only option.